Ruger 357 mag

This is a ruger LCR in 357 mag, it can shoot 38 specials as well,Got this in a trade thinking it would be good for my wife, however it’s just a little too much for her, I think the recoil is very mild for a 357 with grips this size.
I’m looking for other handguns in 380 or 9mm, but also open to whatever else might be offered
It will come with a holster and a box of 38 and 357.